The First Time I Saw a 16 Inch Dildo...
I’ll never forget the first time I laid eyes on a 16 inch dildo. I was in an adult store (not a newbie, mind you), casually browsing the aisles, when my gaze fell on it. This extra-large silicone toy was so intimidating, it might as well have been a prop from a sci-fi movie. I remember thinking, "Who on Earth needs this?" and then quickly realizing… well, some people might.
I’m not here to knock anyone's preferences, but let’s be real: there’s a huge difference between a 10 inch toy and something you could use to set world records in stretching. But just because a dildo is giant doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone — or that you have to immediately jump into the deep end (pun intended). The beauty of adult toy is that you can start small, work your way up, and enjoy each step along the way.
How to Choose the Right Size for You
Let’s start with the basics: size matters — but not in the way you might think. Choosing a large love toy isn’t just about picking the biggest option and calling it a day. Comfort, safety, and your personal preferences should always come first.
For Beginners: Start Slow, Stay Comfortable
If you’ve never used a large toy before, jumping straight into the deep end (we’re talking 16 inches here) could be a recipe for disappointment. I recommend starting somewhere between 10 to 11 inches with a moderate girth. These silicone toys are the sweet spot for those wanting to try larger toys without diving into the unknown.
At this size, you can still feel the fullness without the pressure of overwhelm. You’ll get used to the sensation, and who knows, maybe after a few sessions, you’ll be ready for the next step. For a lot of beginners, vaginal play is a great place to start. If you're curious about anal play, make sure to take your time and relax — trust me, the experience is way better when you're comfortable.
For Intermediate Players: More Size, More Fun
Once you’ve mastered the basics, you might be ready for the 12 to 14 inch range. At this point, you're not a rookie anymore, and your body’s adapted to larger toys. These sizes start to feel more like full-body satisfaction rather than just simple pleasure. The good news? Many silicone toys in this range come with powerful suction bases — meaning you can enjoy some hands-free fun, either solo or with a partner.
But here’s where it gets interesting: If you’re venturing into anal play with these larger sizes, lube becomes your best friend. Don’t skimp on it! Go slowly, relax, and make sure to communicate with your partner (if you have one). Trust me, comfort is key.
For Experienced Users: Going Big (And Going Deep)
If you’re already comfortable with the 12" range and looking for something even bigger, you might start exploring 15 to 16 inch( XXL ) silicone toys. These bad boys are for the true size adventurers. Now, we’re talking about deep exploration, new sensations, and maybe even some roleplay scenarios.
The thing with large love toys (and I’m talking huge here) is that they offer a whole new level of pleasure. The fullness, the stretch, the sensation of being filled up — it’s intense, no doubt. But, like any seasoned adventurer, you need to approach this stage with respect and preparation. Start with positioning: different angles and positions can completely change your experience with large dildos.
Choosing the Right Material: Silicone to the Rescue
Let’s talk material — because choosing the right pleasure toy is just as important as picking the right size. You want something durable, body-safe, and that will stand the test of time (or... the test of many, many uses).
I’m a huge fan of medical-grade silicone. Why? Well, it’s non-toxic, hypoallergenic, and completely odorless. Silicone is also non-porous, which means it doesn’t absorb bacteria or dust, making it super easy to clean (always wash your toys, people). Plus, it’s incredibly durable — so, whether you’re using a big silicone dildo or a oversized silicone toy, you can count on it lasting for years without any issues.
Silicone also mimics the feel of human skin, which adds to the realism of your experience. Many of these dildos come in dual-density designs, meaning they’re softer on the outside, with a firm core inside — perfect for anyone looking for a more realistic feel.
Vaginal vs. Anal Use: Finding What Works for You
Now, here’s the million-dollar question: Should I use my thick silicone dildo for vaginal or anal play?
Vaginal Use: If you’re after a fuller feeling, a thicker girth will give you just that — but start slow. You don’t need to go straight for the massive sizes. A 12-inch dildo can offer plenty of fullness without overstretching.
Anal Use: A larger dildo can bring incredible sensations, but for safety and comfort, it’s all about starting small and working your way up. Go with a slimmer, flexible toy to begin with, and work your way toward bigger options once your muscles have relaxed. A flared base is a must for anal dildos.
Where to Buy a Huge Silicone Dildo in the US
So now that you know how to choose the right colossal silicone toy, where can you find one?
Local Adult Stores:
Visiting an adult store can be a great option if you prefer to see and touch before you buy. You can often find a wide selection of large silicon dildos in different sizes and colors, and the staff can offer helpful guidance.
Lovehoney USA, and Adam & Eve offers a great selection of realistic silicone dildos, plus they’re known for their reliable shipping and discreet packaging.
Amazon, eBay is convenient, but always check reviews and ensure you’re buying from a trusted seller.
GiantDildo.com is my go-to for premium silicone dildos that focus on size. From 10 inch (L) to 16 inch (XXL), you’ll find dildos that are perfect for anal and vaginal play, made of durable silicone.
In Conclusion
When choosing a large silicone dildo, it’s all about personal preference. Don’t rush into it — take your time, find the size and material that feels right for you, and remember, comfort and safety should always come first. Whether you’re starting with a 10 inch or venturing into 16 inches, enjoy the exploration!
Happy exploring!